This may be a strange one for me to answer, but I have to say this is one of the most common questions I get asked. It’s not what I would call a controversial question, but since I’ve been working with this idea for quite a while, I thought I should share the truth.
I think about it a lot because for a long time the only life I had was one of constant activity. I work a lot. I am constantly trying to achieve and accomplish something. The idea of living in serene and contented existence made sense to me.
The serene life is an actual lifestyle choice. Rather than being a constant activity, we can choose to keep those things in our life that we want to keep and enjoy. There are many ways to do this, but the best way is not to let your stress get out of control and get in the way of your goals.
In our everyday lives, we are constantly in a state of stress and fear. We are constantly trying to control things that shouldn’t be in our control. We’re constantly trying to achieve and accomplish something, and we’re constantly trying to be happy. This constant stress and fear can often get in the way of our happiness, and in fact can lead to depression. If you’ve ever struggled with depression, you know it’s a very real thing.
Depression is a very real thing. Even if you don’t experience it, if you feel it you can easily fall into the depression cycle. The problem is that if you feel depressed, then you’re going to have a hard time getting out of the depression cycle.
In fact, the more we are stressed, the more depressed we become. We are constantly stressed, and we do not have enough self-control. By stressing we lose our self-control. When we lose our self-control, we don’t have enough willpower to do something, and so we have an “it’s my fault” mentality. We put our problems on others and blame them, when in fact the problem is with us.
When we lose our self-control we tend to blame others for our problems. We say things like, “I didnt do anything wrong,” or, “I wish I had done this or that,” or, “I’m the only one who is supposed to do it,” when the reality of the situation is that we didnt do anything wrong.
No, not that way. We tend to blame others for our problems. We even believe they’re the cause of the problem, but they don’t know it yet (and often times we don’t), so we’re going to blame others to get them over with, and instead, blame us. We don’t blame people who have not worked hard enough to do the job, and we can’t blame others because they have not worked hard enough to do the job.
People who have worked hard to do the job, they have to work harder and harder because the jobs are more and more complex. They have to go through more and more people to get the job done. People who have not done enough, they have to do more and more to get the job done. The cycle of blame is broken, and we are the ones who have to make the decision to try to fix it.
The problem with the cycle of blame is that it is not really a cycle, more of a loop. It is a loop that can be broken but not really broken. No matter how hard you try, there is always someone who is trying to blame you, but it is not really your fault. It is someone else’s fault. It is you who must take responsibility for your own actions.