The river is full of life, but there are so many layers of life all around it. From the water you can see for miles, to the birds nesting in the trees, to the wildlife that lives there, to the insects that feed on the algae that runs down the river banks, and the fish that spawn in the river and in the river’s rapids… it’s all so beautiful.
The fish that live on the river are on the surface of the water at the moment they spawn.
The fish that spawn in the river are on the surface of the water at the moment they spawn. The surface of the water is where the fish are feeding on the algae that runs down the river banks. The river is full of life, but there are so many layers of life all around it.
So it’s a good idea to look at the algae as a feeder for the fish that spawn in the river. The algae is the water that feeds the fish. The water that feeds the fish is the algae that runs the river. It’s not a good idea to look at the algae as an aid for the fish that spawn in the river.
Actually, yes, look at the water as an aid for the fish that spawn in the river. But do you look at the algae as an aid for the fish that spawn in the river? Do you just look at the algae because you like to swim in the river? No, you look at the algae because its the water that feeds the fish. Why are you swimming in the river? Because the algae is in the water.
You may have noticed that this post is a little long and the content is more technical. I am just trying to illustrate the point that people can have a good idea, but that the problem is that they don’t know how to express it. So here’s the trick. We all have a “why” behind our actions. Often it’s hidden in the middle of the question. The reasons for our actions are usually hidden deep down in our minds.
I think this is one of the most important things I’ve learned about “How To”. We are never as good at articulating our reasons as we are at understanding the why behind our actions. It takes practice, and to put yourself in the shoes of someone else, and try to figure it out for yourself. That’s where you find the why behind your actions.
Now, you can say, “I was only trying to get back at my ex-girlfriend and not to kill anyone, but I can’t remember who’s fault it was,” or, “I was trying to get my car back, but I can’t remember who’s fault it was,” or, “I was trying to get my son back, but I don’t know who’s fault it was.” I don’t think your reasons are as important as your why.
This is a point well made by some of the comments that I received on my youtube channel. I think the why is the most important aspect of a “self-aware” person. The why is what we look back at and look out for when we’re on autopilot, and we forget how to get back to it. So the how is the most important thing if you’re trying to get back your car.
What I find difficult to do in order to get back to my why is that I often get distracted by a need to do something. For example, I have a blog that I’m always updating. I can’t get back to it at the end of the day because I’m on my phone. However, if I did get back to my why, I would have to remind myself that I’m supposed to be updating my blog and that I’m supposed to be doing that.
