There are certain places where we do just fine as a couple. The bedroom, where your relationship is based, and the kitchen, where you cook together. But it’s when we are out and on our own that we become the most vulnerable.
I’m going to make sure I get a good night of sleep for your entire day. My parents get on with the laundry. They keep me in their room so that I can watch the other people in the room. I’m going to have some time for my parents to settle in and watch the house. We have to wait for the shower, but its a little slow going.
This is one of the major concerns about marriage. I have a friend who got married when he was 23 and had his first child by 25. He spent two years in a hospital with a broken hip before he got back to his life of a working man. He has since been on the dating scene with several woman and has been divorced twice. He even admitted to feeling lonely during the divorce.
I don’t like it when people say they want to marry someone they’ve never met, or, “I’m so in love with my husband that I’m willing to compromise my morals for sexual satisfaction.” I’m not sure if it’s because I feel that way, or I’m just ignorant about the marriage rules, but I don’t think that’s something you can just “get over” with.
But when you’re at the very beginning of your relationship, you might not realize how much you feel like settling. Even if you’re not aware of it, as you get to know someone you’ll probably realize you’re not the same person you were before. And it’s okay. There are plenty of people out there who feel the same way.
Most people who marry don’t feel as if they have to deal with these feelings. I know a lot of people who marry for family and love, but even they don’t have to deal with feelings like that. When youre in your early 20s, you dont even realize your feelings for someone. Maybe its because these feelings are so intense that you just cant sleep without letting them out.
I can relate to that. I feel the same way about marriage. I dont believe you need to be in a marriage to feel the same way, it just takes a while to work out. But when youre in your early 20s, there are plenty of people who have never felt the same way. And if you dont feel the same way, then youre probably not in a marriage.
I feel the same way about marriage as I do about love. As much as I love my fiance, I feel like I dont know the real me. I dont know how I feel about him, I dont know where he is. I feel like I dont know him at all. And just to make things worse, we dont know where he is. We cant find each other.
What if, in our efforts to find our spouse, we find that we don’t know where he is? In fact, that we have no idea where he is? We can tell you that your fiance is probably in a prison somewhere, and we can tell you that he probably doesn’t have a phone. But we cant tell you where he is. Because he cant be in a place we dont know.
